RESCUE MY MIND

It is a question which has been a bother to my mind always. I wonder who can rescue my mind by giving me a satisfiable answer that I need. For the last 2 years I have been wondering, questioning among others but till now I have never got an answer that I have been seeking for.

I have been trying to remove this quiz in my mind and pretend that I don’t care about it but all has been in vain and now I have decided to as it publically.”Why is the numbers of the single mother becoming more every day of life.

In my research that I have done I have come up with numbers of different opinion from different people as to why we have many single mothers in our country. The major reason that I got from the people giving me the same opinion is that of young girls engaging themselves to married men to get money. This is where you find that young girls especially in high schools and college they are getting influence from their colleagues who will tell them exactly what they do to get money and in the process of trying it one get herself pregnant. Without remembering that they are married and they have their families and that’s why they cannot marry those young girls and abandon their families leading to increase of single mothers.

Another reason is where girls are falling in love with men who are surely not ready to get married. This may be because of their young age, not being financially stable among others. When they get a girl pregnant they have no option apart from dumping them and hence leaving them in a state of being single mothers.

The third reason that I got from other minor ones, is where young people are getting married for fun without considering the consequences of marrage.This is also termed as the major reason of single mother because after staying for a short period and get children, they tend to see life in an opposite direction from which they saw from the bagging and they end up getting separated hence a case of single mother.

I wonder what can be done to minimize or finish those problems which led to single mother. But on my opinion I suggest that there should be seiners being held to educate young people on effects of mirages and how they should take care of themselves and because having sex is like a normal thing to youths’ they should be educated on the right way to prevent themselves and sty a health life.

But all in all I wonder who to be blamed for this. Is it the young girls? Young boys? Those men with money or who? Can the government be blamed for not taking tuff measures against those people who raise those issues? I am in a dilemma of who will ever come to rescue this.

To be sincere the only person who can rescue my mind from this dilemma is the one who can be in a position of answering my bothering questions.